• • If you were to ask yourself, how many years have you been holding on to the inappropriate behavioural patterns that’s been stopping you from getting more love, more recognition, more money or more fulfilment in your life? You would probably say, 20 years, 30 years or more. So if you have been conditioned to live in a certain way, wouldn’t it be fair to give yourself at least 6 months to reprogram yourself with new mindset and recondition your new behavioural patterns so that it can stick with you for good?
  • Can you recall the countless people you know, who makes new year resolution then gives up on their goals and go back to their old habit? Or do you know people who are seminar junkies? They go to seminar after seminar, courses after courses but years passed by and their life is still the same? Why? Because you and I know that changing ourselves is hard work, especially when we are on our own. The truth is, we need someone who can hold us firmly, guide us and believe in us. We need people who can support us in our journey. So you may or may not agree with this but, if you want to create a sustainable, permanent change in your life, it will take at least 6 months of transformation journey. If you just want a quick fix and don’t mind going back to your old self when the storm hits, then a 4 weeks or 12 weeks program would be good enough.

• One of my teacher Tony Robbins said “Success is 80% psychology, 20% is mechanics”. Just imagine, you want to make more money. You attended an investment course by an investment guru who gives you his proven tool to make more wealth. This tool, is the mechanics. Think of it like a Ferarri. It can get you to your destination 10x faster.
  
  
• But what if you didn’t have the mindset to drive it? Your fear of failure says, “what if I drive so fast and it crash?” Your self-doubts says, “I’m scared, can I really do this?”. Can you drive the Ferrari effectively to its maximum potential? Just imagine this, the same guru can give the same tool to 100 students, but only the rare 5 students succeeded. Why? Because it goes back to the individual self, right? When you build your best self and have the absolute confidence, you can drive any Ferarri that’s given to you easily and effortlessly. So wouldn’t you want to work on your psychology and you can perform any mechanics successfully? Whether it is to increase your income so you can have more time to live your life, to get promotion and recognition at work or to salvage the relationship at home?

One of my teacher, Mark Hemstedt, lived his life vivaciously, full of passion and fulfilment doing what he loves, he played hard and worked hard, he made a difference with his leadership training and coaching across the region. Throughout his life, he has impacted over hundreds of thousands of people with his work, he created leaders who were impacted by his teachings, and these leaders created greater ripple effects in the world. Sadly, he passed away at the age of 55 years old.
What if, he never made the decision to do what he was meant to do?
In the last years alone, how many great names have passed?
What if Avicii, Kate Spade, Robin Williams, Prince it was not the right time to pursue their greatness?
What if tomorrow never comes?

Do you want a specialist who is not just trained in practical emotional and mind mastery, but also someone who has been through the journey personally, who understands your fears and had successfully helped countless individuals and most importantly, who can connect with you at a deeper level and pull you out of the darkness that you are trapped in? If you’ve said yes, then you and I can be the right fit for a coaching relationship. If not, I’m sure you will be able to find a different coach that fit your needs.

Have you ever feel that you know what is the right thing to do, what you must do and should do, but you are not doing it? Because your ego, or your emotions is blocking you to do what you should do? And no matter how many logical questions your ICF coach ask you, you just refuse to make a move?

I am not an ICF coach because I’m an NLP Coach with the American Board of NLP (ABNLP), which is the world’s largest authority in NLP with its own training standards and regulations.

I am also a Strategic Interventionist trained under the official life coach training of Tony Robbins. Strategic Intervention (SI) is an interdisciplinary framework and movement, extracted from the most practical and highly effective forms of strategic action and communication from a variety of disciplines: Ericksonian therapy, strategic family therapy, Human Needs Psychology, organisational psychology, neurolinguistics, psychology of influence and others. SI is a method of practical strategic action to create a positive and lasting change.

So if you want not just a coach but also a specialist equipped with the right tools and techniques to get you out of your emotional blockages, you are at the right place.