How can you be truly happy?
Mom always told me, “don’t smile so big, your teeth look so big, so unsightly” π π π
This photo caught my attention, not because I get compliments for it. It’s also not my best shot π But there is something about this smile that I feel so special.
It’s the joyful smile, one that is so free spirited, radiating from within.β¨β¨β¨

I’m reminded of those lonely days and nights where I was stuck in my emotional prison.π
βI didn’t know how to be happy on my own.
βΌοΈI was depending on others to make me feel happy.
And when I didn’t get what I long for, I cried and cried and cried. And no matter how much I cried, nobody care. π€·ββοΈ
It was just me in my emotional prison, taking pity on how pathetic my life was.
It was a sad, dark period of my life that I thank God, I’ve gotten out of it.
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After my setbacks,
I’ve learnt to see my worth.
I’ve learnt to love myself.
I’ve learnt to be happy.
I’ve learnt to create the life I love. β€οΈπ₯
Today, I’m easily happy. I don’t need much to make me smile. π
I love to smile and sometimes, it got me into trouble cos my son get so upset thinking that I laughed at him. And I told him, “Mommy is not laughing at you, mommy laugh because mommy is easily happy”. He replied, “Ah I see. So next time if you laugh, I’ll take it that it means something good.”
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Perhaps, you look at my Facebook photos and you thought, “She is so happy.”
Do I have my life challenges? Of course I do. So what has changed?
I am still me.
And,
My mindset has changed.
My skillset has changed.
My empathy has grown.
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How I wish, someone has extended his/her hand when I was feeling lost and stuck.
How I wish someone had taught me how to run my mind and emotions instead of letting it run me. πββοΈ
But I didn’t have it back then, and therefore I had my years of ‘suffering’ on my own.
I withered.
So if you are still reading my post, if you are feeling lost and stuck,
Or you know people who feel lost and stuck,
Reach out. πππ
Let them know I am here for them. And as long as they are willing to change, I will help them break free from their emotional prison and reclaim their power. πͺ
This is also a strong driver why I created my Heart Talk Community. β₯οΈ
Heart Talk is not for the mentally ill or emotionally weak.
Heart Talk is for you and I:
– who love people
– who want to give love and receive love
– who want to support, encourage and uplift one another to be a better human being.
If you are aligned with my mission, feel free to join us in our Heart Talk community events. Just email me or PM me on my Facebook π
So my dear friends, I shall leave you with this note.
β₯οΈ Beauty shine from within, so is happiness.
βοΈ When you let go of the toxic people in your life, you glow.
π Choose to be happy because life is priceless.
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And if you feel having a personal coach will help you break free from your emotional prison and reclaim your power, feel free to email me at rainy@growwithrainy.com for a complimentary Breakthrough session or visit my web page to work with me https://growwithrainy.com/coaching-with-rainy/
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In Authenticity & Courage,
Rainy the Rainmaker
