Table of Contents When a New Role, New Boss, or Setback Makes You Doubt Yourself If you have started doubting yourself after a new role, new boss, or career setback, you are not alone. You may have stepped into a new position. Your job scope may have expanded. A new leader may have come in. […]
Table of Contents The inner critic fuels negative self talk, one of the biggest drivers of self-sabotaging behaviours. You got the promotion. The title changed. The scope expanded. The calendar got heavier. And then… quietly… something else showed up. That small, persistent thought:“What if they overestimated me?” If you’ve felt that, it doesn’t mean you’re […]
Table of Contents A leadership development plan for 2026 begins with intentional reflection – not more pressure. Most leaders I work with are incredibly capable. They deliver results.They carry responsibility.They hold teams, targets, and expectations – often across regions and time zones. And yet, when I ask them a simple question:“When was the last time […]
Table of Contents When your career reaches a certain level of success, the next breakthrough isn’t about working harder — it’s about aligning deeper. That’s why I’m incredibly honoured to be featured by Mirchelley Muses among the Best Career Coaches in Singapore for 2025. This recognition isn’t just a milestone — it’s a reflection of […]
Self-sabotage often shows up just when success is within reach—keeping you stuck in old patterns. Table of Contents What Is Self Sabotaging and Why It Happens Have you ever found yourself standing at the edge of something great—only to back away, pick a fight, procrastinate, or suddenly “mess it all up”? You’re not alone. This […]
Freedom begins when you release the chains of unrealistic expectations. Table of Contents Behind the drive for flawlessness lies a deeper truth—many perfectionists don’t feel “good enough,” no matter how much they achieve. In this article, you’ll uncover the key traits of a perfectionist mindset, understand how it silently impacts your mental health, and discover […]
Mental toughness means staying grounded, even when life feels chaotic. Table of Contents Why Mental Toughness Matters Life throws curveballs – unexpected job changes, health scares, lost opportunities, and difficult relationships. What separates those who crumble from those who rise? Mental toughness. Mental toughness is important because it equips you to handle adverse circumstances, such […]
Embracing your authentic self is the first step to cultivating true self love. Table of Contents The Power of Self Love in a Demanding World In a world that constantly demands more—more success, more perfection, more productivity—it’s easy to lose sight of what matters most: how you feel about yourself. Here’s a life-changing truth: Self […]
Great leaders inspire by seeing the future before others do Table of Contents Introduction to Leadership What makes a good leader truly unforgettable? Is it their title, their resume, or their years in a leadership position? No—true leadership is measured by impact. This article focuses on exceptional leadership qualities—such as integrity, empathy, accountability, transparency, and […]
The Best Practices for Mindful Self-Compassion: A Guide to Well-Being Mindful self-compassion helps leaders reconnect with calm and lead with clarity. Table of Contents Let me ask you something straight up: Are you tired of being your own worst critic? Do you crush your goals at work — yet feel like a fraud inside? If […]
Table of Contents Key Takeaways Effective leadership begins with your integrity, empathy, and ability to make decisions that matter. Self-awareness and continuous learning help you grow into your unique leadership style. Building strong relationships, mastering communication, and tapping into your emotional intelligence will help you lead with confidence. You can inspire trust, empower your team, […]
Coaching-centered leadership empowers teams with clarity, empathy, and connection—driving real transformation in today’s workplaces. Table of Contents In today’s fast-paced world, where change is the only constant, your ability to elevate others through coaching distinguishes you as an exceptional leader. Coaching isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a transformative approach that empowers you and those around […]
At Rainmakers Coaching International, we’re thrilled and deeply grateful to be recognized by BestLah.sg as one of the Best Life Coaches in Singapore! We are also thankful to Impossible Marketing for their awesome SEO efforts in making it all possible. Their expertise in SEO has been a key part of helping companies increase their online […]
Table of Contents Looking to improve your leadership skills in Singapore? An executive coach can help leaders like you enhance your performance and achieve your goals. This page highlights top executive coaching services available in Singapore and what you can expect from the Rainmaker Executive Coaching. Key Takeaways Effective leadership transformation is critical for organizations […]
You are reading this because you have set some goals early this year and you are wondering whether or not you are on track to achieve your goals this year, right? Here are the 10 Signs You’ll Achieve Your Goals This Year! 1. You’ve created a PLAN, and you followed it. Having goals is one […]
Disagreements? Conflicts? Misunderstandings at work or home? It’s all got to do with this one thing – the meaning. So if you’d like to learn how to minimise disagreements, conflicts or misunderstandings in your personal or professional life, read on. It sounds like this: “My boss passed the new project to my juniors.” = He doesn’t […]
Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, spinning your wheels and not making any progress? Or maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of decisions that need to be made and you don’t know which is right for you. If so, you might benefit from creating a clear life vision. Many of […]
Thinking of hiring a career coach but not sure what it’s all about? Read on… Do you have big aspirations and feel like there’s just something missing? Feeling stuck at work? Perhaps hiring a Career Coach can help you find that missing piece or break free. But what must you know before hiring a career […]
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Have you ever been in a situation where you have to do something, but you keep procrastinating because you really dislike doing it? We all have tasks that we dread doing. Whether it is creating a strategic plan, sending CVs to apply for a job, taking an exam, or cleaning the house, there are things […]
As we bid farewell to the tumultuous year that was 2022, its time to look ahead and set our sights on the future.What will 2023 bring? What do you want to focus on this year? For me, my theme for 2023 is FOCUS. This word resonates deeply with me and I believe it will guide […]
The year of 2022 has ended. It’s been a journey filled with both highs and lows. Yet in the midst of it all, I’ve been tested, grown and achieved new milestones in my business and personal relationships. I would use the five words that best sum up my experience in 2022: Bumpy Sweet Stretchy Relief, […]
Table of Contents Have you ever felt like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, wondering where your true potential lies? In my younger days, I was adrift – unsure of my strengths, passions, or the steps to achieve my dreams. I had no idea what I wanted or what made me […]
I cried so much. As the kids stand up one by one, sharing their experience of the last 5 days mindset bootcamp, giving their gratitude to their parents, I couldn’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotion. I noticed tears start rolling down my eyes and I couldn’t stop it. I’ve waited for years for my […]
Are you facing a life transition? Are you going through a setback and you wonder what’s the meaning of your life? Are you wondering, if you can ever be happy again? If you are facing a life transition, read on. You see, I’ve asked the above questions questions during the low period of my life. […]
Has there been a time when you are in a group setting and you met someone who just keeps talking and dominating the conversation? How does that make you feel? Did you think the person was impressive or annoying? So often we are busy trying to impress people with how smart we are by telling […]
2021 ~ How was it for you? Took me a while to do my ‘homework’ writing my reflection for 2021.📒🖊️ It’s a 10 thought provoking questions. I had written 10 long pages 😅, but will keep it short here. One word to describe my 2021 –‘MAGICAL’. 🪄🔮 It’s a magical year that the few key […]
To listen on MeListen, click here
Table of Contents Relationship Coach Singapore: Transform Your Inner World & Build Stronger Relationships Most people don’t search for a relationship coach in Singapore when life is smooth.They search for one when something inside feels heavy, confusing, or painfully familiar. Maybe your marriage feels distant.Maybe every conversation turns into an argument with your peers.Maybe you’re […]
A transformational life coach helps you create deep and lasting change by working not only on what you do, but who you are becoming. Unlike traditional goal-setting alone, transformational life coaching helps you understand your beliefs, emotions, identity, patterns, and inner blocks so you can move from where you are now to where you want […]
How to Choose the Best Life Coach in Singapore: 2 Questions to Ask Before You Decide Are you searching for the best life coach in Singapore? Most people begin the same way. They type “best life coach Singapore” into Google, scroll through a few websites, compare testimonials, and hope they will somehow know who is […]
So you are looking for a Life Transition Coach but you are not sure what you should be looking for? The answers to these six frequently asked questions would guide you to find the right fit for you. First of all, let’s get clear with the definition. 1. WHAT IS A LIFE TRANSITION COACH? A Life Transition […]
How can you be truly happy? Mom always told me, “don’t smile so big, your teeth look so big, so unsightly” 😅😅😅 This photo caught my attention, not because I get compliments for it. It’s also not my best shot 😅 But there is something about this smile that I feel so special. It’s the […]
Relationship ‘failure’, a matter that is close to heart for many of us I have an interesting though not shocking reflection yesterday when I learned about the four traps that contribute to a failed marriage or any relationship at work. Dr. John Gottman calls it the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Here are the Four […]
Make New Year Resolutions Work For You You don’t believe you can achieve your goal, that is one of the key reasons why your new year resolution doesn’t work. If you have been setting the same new year resolution for the last few years and have not been achieving it, you may have given up […]
So December is here, again. As the year is drawing to an end, you could be thinking another year is passing soon and you have many goals not accomplished. And the more you look at your checklist, the more you feel overwhelmed by the self-inflicting blame and you hear yourself saying..“you procrastinate too much”“why can’t […]
I’ve heard about The Go-Giver book from 2 people whom I encountered. One of them was a young public speaker, coach and entrepreneur Jonecca, who was able to build her brand and a thriving training and coaching business in a short one year. I was curious of her success and she attributed her success to […]
I’d like to pick a ‘taboo’ topic today. Divorced Vs Self Worth. Setback Vs Growth. Question: 1. When you encounter a setback in life, how does that affect your self worth? 2. Do you allow the setback to DEPRECIATE your self worth? If the answer is Yes, 3. What can you do to turn the […]
I don’t like change! Do you like change? Change aren’t comfortable at at all. Before change happens, you see so much uncertainty in front of you. And for most people, their mind is clouded with fears of what if I fail? What if I can’t make it? It freaks them out 🙄🙈😱 That was what […]
The truth is, you can be a better version of yourself, when you decide 🎯 I don’t believe in having to choose between inner beauty and outer beauty. Why can’t you have both? 🤔 Many years back, I gave up on myself, I didn’t care how I look, I told myself I’m old, unattractive, it doesn’t matter, […]
3rd Feb 2018, I declared that I want to share my story to the world, so that no one will be kept small and invisible, so that no child will be broken, so that no one will have to pay the heavy price I paid, for not knowing what they didn’t know, just like I […]
Table of Contents Why High-Achievers Experience Burnout and Emotional Exhaustion Have you ever woken up already tired, even after sleeping and wondered why your mind feels foggy, your body feels heavy, and your heart feels disconnected? It’s as though you are running on a flat battery, yet life keeps demanding more from you. For many […]
Intention This story, is not about finger pointing of who’s at fault, it’s not about blaming or criticising my past. It’s just me being in my vulnerability, in my loving state, taking 100% responsibility that led me to my outcome. It’s more about learning from my painful experience, and how you can change your […]
People often ask me what makes a good coach? How do you choose a personal coach that is the right fit for you? We all need someone: ✅ To help us get unstuck. ✅ To be our mirror so we can see our blind spot. ✅ To help us discover the resources and strength within us. ✅ To speak […]
5 years ago I was sitting in the room just like the 140 #PatternOfExcellence participants this year. It was the beginning of my coaching journey, a passion that I finally realised now, the one thing that has always been inside me that makes me feel alive and purposeful. I owe my growth to my teachers and […]
Today’s theme: To Aries: Choose One word that describes your mom, create the painting and give it to your mom. To Mom: Choose One word that describes Aries, create the painting and give it to your son. I’m surprised and I’m grateful that my little boy gave me the word ‘Positive’ haha…of all the words […]
Table of Contents Vulnerability: The Courage to Be Real I once watched a movie called The Good Doctor. It’s about a young doctor named Dr. Murphy, who is autistic. He has an innate gift that sets him apart—he sees the whole world differently, with a mind that can solve complex medical puzzles. But because of […]
Because I love, I got hurt. Because I got hurt, I now know how to love. It’s interesting how life unfold. Steve Jobs said, you can always connect the dot from the past. And he was right. Whatever that has happened, whatever that I’ve experienced, seems to have prepared me for today. When I take […]
“Emotion does not happen to you. Emotion is an act of doing.” I had so much fun asking my little boy Aries to show me the ‘strategies’ he use to feel excited, happy, sad by pretending. And he did so well showing me how he does it, how he move his body, how he sit, […]
Live meaningfully, Love courageously, Grow abundantly.
Warriors of light! Awesome bunch! Its been a long journey. I started with having just 1 positive influence in my life. Over the years, I have consciously expanded that inner circle of positive, uplifting, humble, courageous, confident and charismatic leaders and coaches in my space. I still remember one of my client told me that […]
Don’t you walk alone. The world is full of loving souls. If you know what you want, go get it, physically work on it. Set the intention, mentally, and the universe will send the right people and the right opportunities into your path. If believing in the invisible force can help you reach your easier, […]
1. Highlights of 2017 The highlights of 2017, is to finally let go of an 11 years of relationship and commitment that doesn’t serve me. No matter how much I want to make it work, to give my son a happy family, I still lose in this battle. Often quilts came after me, telling me […]
POE coaching family! Feels awesome to be back. The commitment, the leadership, positive and selfless culture here is just so magnetic. Each and every time we were back to contribute, we found ourselves being the recipient of growth. It never fail to bring us up to the next level in our pursuit to unleash the […]
Table of Contents When your career reaches a certain level of success, the next breakthrough isn’t about working harder — it’s about aligning deeper. That’s why I’m incredibly honoured to be featured by Mirchelley Muses among the Best Career Coaches in Singapore for 2025. This recognition isn’t just a milestone — it’s a reflection of […]
Table of Contents Relationship Coach Singapore: Transform Your Inner World & Build Stronger Relationships Most people don’t search for a relationship coach in Singapore when life is smooth.They search for one when something inside feels heavy, confusing, or painfully familiar. Maybe your marriage feels distant.Maybe every conversation turns into an argument with your peers.Maybe you’re […]
How to Choose the Best Life Coach in Singapore: 2 Questions to Ask Before You Decide Are you searching for the best life coach in Singapore? Most people begin the same way. They type “best life coach Singapore” into Google, scroll through a few websites, compare testimonials, and hope they will somehow know who is […]
So you are looking for a Life Transition Coach but you are not sure what you should be looking for? The answers to these six frequently asked questions would guide you to find the right fit for you. First of all, let’s get clear with the definition. 1. WHAT IS A LIFE TRANSITION COACH? A Life Transition […]
People often ask me what makes a good coach? How do you choose a personal coach that is the right fit for you? We all need someone: ✅ To help us get unstuck. ✅ To be our mirror so we can see our blind spot. ✅ To help us discover the resources and strength within us. ✅ To speak […]
Table of Contents Key Takeaways Effective leadership begins with your integrity, empathy, and ability to make decisions that matter. Self-awareness and continuous learning help you grow into your unique leadership style. Building strong relationships, mastering communication, and tapping into your emotional intelligence will help you lead with confidence. You can inspire trust, empower your team, […]
At Rainmakers Coaching International, we’re thrilled and deeply grateful to be recognized by BestLah.sg as one of the Best Life Coaches in Singapore! We are also thankful to Impossible Marketing for their awesome SEO efforts in making it all possible. Their expertise in SEO has been a key part of helping companies increase their online […]
Table of Contents Looking to improve your leadership skills in Singapore? An executive coach can help leaders like you enhance your performance and achieve your goals. This page highlights top executive coaching services available in Singapore and what you can expect from the Rainmaker Executive Coaching. Key Takeaways Effective leadership transformation is critical for organizations […]
You are reading this because you have set some goals early this year and you are wondering whether or not you are on track to achieve your goals this year, right? Here are the 10 Signs You’ll Achieve Your Goals This Year! 1. You’ve created a PLAN, and you followed it. Having goals is one […]
Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, spinning your wheels and not making any progress? Or maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of decisions that need to be made and you don’t know which is right for you. If so, you might benefit from creating a clear life vision. Many of […]
Thinking of hiring a career coach but not sure what it’s all about? Read on… Do you have big aspirations and feel like there’s just something missing? Feeling stuck at work? Perhaps hiring a Career Coach can help you find that missing piece or break free. But what must you know before hiring a career […]
Have you ever been in a situation where you have to do something, but you keep procrastinating because you really dislike doing it? We all have tasks that we dread doing. Whether it is creating a strategic plan, sending CVs to apply for a job, taking an exam, or cleaning the house, there are things […]
As we bid farewell to the tumultuous year that was 2022, its time to look ahead and set our sights on the future.What will 2023 bring? What do you want to focus on this year? For me, my theme for 2023 is FOCUS. This word resonates deeply with me and I believe it will guide […]
The year of 2022 has ended. It’s been a journey filled with both highs and lows. Yet in the midst of it all, I’ve been tested, grown and achieved new milestones in my business and personal relationships. I would use the five words that best sum up my experience in 2022: Bumpy Sweet Stretchy Relief, […]
Table of Contents Have you ever felt like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, wondering where your true potential lies? In my younger days, I was adrift – unsure of my strengths, passions, or the steps to achieve my dreams. I had no idea what I wanted or what made me […]
2021 ~ How was it for you? Took me a while to do my ‘homework’ writing my reflection for 2021.📒🖊️ It’s a 10 thought provoking questions. I had written 10 long pages 😅, but will keep it short here. One word to describe my 2021 –‘MAGICAL’. 🪄🔮 It’s a magical year that the few key […]
A transformational life coach helps you create deep and lasting change by working not only on what you do, but who you are becoming. Unlike traditional goal-setting alone, transformational life coaching helps you understand your beliefs, emotions, identity, patterns, and inner blocks so you can move from where you are now to where you want […]
Make New Year Resolutions Work For You You don’t believe you can achieve your goal, that is one of the key reasons why your new year resolution doesn’t work. If you have been setting the same new year resolution for the last few years and have not been achieving it, you may have given up […]
So December is here, again. As the year is drawing to an end, you could be thinking another year is passing soon and you have many goals not accomplished. And the more you look at your checklist, the more you feel overwhelmed by the self-inflicting blame and you hear yourself saying..“you procrastinate too much”“why can’t […]
I’ve heard about The Go-Giver book from 2 people whom I encountered. One of them was a young public speaker, coach and entrepreneur Jonecca, who was able to build her brand and a thriving training and coaching business in a short one year. I was curious of her success and she attributed her success to […]
I don’t like change! Do you like change? Change aren’t comfortable at at all. Before change happens, you see so much uncertainty in front of you. And for most people, their mind is clouded with fears of what if I fail? What if I can’t make it? It freaks them out 🙄🙈😱 That was what […]
The truth is, you can be a better version of yourself, when you decide 🎯 I don’t believe in having to choose between inner beauty and outer beauty. Why can’t you have both? 🤔 Many years back, I gave up on myself, I didn’t care how I look, I told myself I’m old, unattractive, it doesn’t matter, […]
3rd Feb 2018, I declared that I want to share my story to the world, so that no one will be kept small and invisible, so that no child will be broken, so that no one will have to pay the heavy price I paid, for not knowing what they didn’t know, just like I […]
Disagreements? Conflicts? Misunderstandings at work or home? It’s all got to do with this one thing – the meaning. So if you’d like to learn how to minimise disagreements, conflicts or misunderstandings in your personal or professional life, read on. It sounds like this: “My boss passed the new project to my juniors.” = He doesn’t […]
I cried so much. As the kids stand up one by one, sharing their experience of the last 5 days mindset bootcamp, giving their gratitude to their parents, I couldn’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotion. I noticed tears start rolling down my eyes and I couldn’t stop it. I’ve waited for years for my […]
Has there been a time when you are in a group setting and you met someone who just keeps talking and dominating the conversation? How does that make you feel? Did you think the person was impressive or annoying? So often we are busy trying to impress people with how smart we are by telling […]
To listen on MeListen, click here
Table of Contents Relationship Coach Singapore: Transform Your Inner World & Build Stronger Relationships Most people don’t search for a relationship coach in Singapore when life is smooth.They search for one when something inside feels heavy, confusing, or painfully familiar. Maybe your marriage feels distant.Maybe every conversation turns into an argument with your peers.Maybe you’re […]
How can you be truly happy? Mom always told me, “don’t smile so big, your teeth look so big, so unsightly” 😅😅😅 This photo caught my attention, not because I get compliments for it. It’s also not my best shot 😅 But there is something about this smile that I feel so special. It’s the […]
Relationship ‘failure’, a matter that is close to heart for many of us I have an interesting though not shocking reflection yesterday when I learned about the four traps that contribute to a failed marriage or any relationship at work. Dr. John Gottman calls it the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Here are the Four […]
I’d like to pick a ‘taboo’ topic today. Divorced Vs Self Worth. Setback Vs Growth. Question: 1. When you encounter a setback in life, how does that affect your self worth? 2. Do you allow the setback to DEPRECIATE your self worth? If the answer is Yes, 3. What can you do to turn the […]
Intention This story, is not about finger pointing of who’s at fault, it’s not about blaming or criticising my past. It’s just me being in my vulnerability, in my loving state, taking 100% responsibility that led me to my outcome. It’s more about learning from my painful experience, and how you can change your […]
Today’s theme: To Aries: Choose One word that describes your mom, create the painting and give it to your mom. To Mom: Choose One word that describes Aries, create the painting and give it to your son. I’m surprised and I’m grateful that my little boy gave me the word ‘Positive’ haha…of all the words […]
Table of Contents Vulnerability: The Courage to Be Real I once watched a movie called The Good Doctor. It’s about a young doctor named Dr. Murphy, who is autistic. He has an innate gift that sets him apart—he sees the whole world differently, with a mind that can solve complex medical puzzles. But because of […]
Because I love, I got hurt. Because I got hurt, I now know how to love. It’s interesting how life unfold. Steve Jobs said, you can always connect the dot from the past. And he was right. Whatever that has happened, whatever that I’ve experienced, seems to have prepared me for today. When I take […]
Because I love, I got hurt. Because I got hurt, I now know how to love. It’s interesting how life unfold. Steve Jobs said, you can always connect the dot from the past. And he was right. Whatever that has happened, whatever that I’ve experienced, seems to have prepared me for today. When I take […]
“Emotion does not happen to you. Emotion is an act of doing.” I had so much fun asking my little boy Aries to show me the ‘strategies’ he use to feel excited, happy, sad by pretending. And he did so well showing me how he does it, how he move his body, how he sit, […]
Live meaningfully, Love courageously, Grow abundantly.
Don’t you walk alone. The world is full of loving souls. If you know what you want, go get it, physically work on it. Set the intention, mentally, and the universe will send the right people and the right opportunities into your path. If believing in the invisible force can help you reach your easier, […]
The year of 2022 has ended. It’s been a journey filled with both highs and lows. Yet in the midst of it all, I’ve been tested, grown and achieved new milestones in my business and personal relationships. I would use the five words that best sum up my experience in 2022: Bumpy Sweet Stretchy Relief, […]
Are you facing a life transition? Are you going through a setback and you wonder what’s the meaning of your life? Are you wondering, if you can ever be happy again? If you are facing a life transition, read on. You see, I’ve asked the above questions questions during the low period of my life. […]
2021 ~ How was it for you? Took me a while to do my ‘homework’ writing my reflection for 2021.📒🖊️ It’s a 10 thought provoking questions. I had written 10 long pages 😅, but will keep it short here. One word to describe my 2021 –‘MAGICAL’. 🪄🔮 It’s a magical year that the few key […]
How can you be truly happy? Mom always told me, “don’t smile so big, your teeth look so big, so unsightly” 😅😅😅 This photo caught my attention, not because I get compliments for it. It’s also not my best shot 😅 But there is something about this smile that I feel so special. It’s the […]
Relationship ‘failure’, a matter that is close to heart for many of us I have an interesting though not shocking reflection yesterday when I learned about the four traps that contribute to a failed marriage or any relationship at work. Dr. John Gottman calls it the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Here are the Four […]
3rd Feb 2018, I declared that I want to share my story to the world, so that no one will be kept small and invisible, so that no child will be broken, so that no one will have to pay the heavy price I paid, for not knowing what they didn’t know, just like I […]
5 years ago I was sitting in the room just like the 140 #PatternOfExcellence participants this year. It was the beginning of my coaching journey, a passion that I finally realised now, the one thing that has always been inside me that makes me feel alive and purposeful. I owe my growth to my teachers and […]
Today’s theme: To Aries: Choose One word that describes your mom, create the painting and give it to your mom. To Mom: Choose One word that describes Aries, create the painting and give it to your son. I’m surprised and I’m grateful that my little boy gave me the word ‘Positive’ haha…of all the words […]
Warriors of light! Awesome bunch! Its been a long journey. I started with having just 1 positive influence in my life. Over the years, I have consciously expanded that inner circle of positive, uplifting, humble, courageous, confident and charismatic leaders and coaches in my space. I still remember one of my client told me that […]
1. Highlights of 2017 The highlights of 2017, is to finally let go of an 11 years of relationship and commitment that doesn’t serve me. No matter how much I want to make it work, to give my son a happy family, I still lose in this battle. Often quilts came after me, telling me […]
POE coaching family! Feels awesome to be back. The commitment, the leadership, positive and selfless culture here is just so magnetic. Each and every time we were back to contribute, we found ourselves being the recipient of growth. It never fail to bring us up to the next level in our pursuit to unleash the […]
Table of Contents When a New Role, New Boss, or Setback Makes You Doubt Yourself If you have started doubting yourself after a new role, new boss, or career setback, you are not alone. You may have stepped into a new position. Your job scope may have expanded. A new leader may have come in. […]
Table of Contents The inner critic fuels negative self talk, one of the biggest drivers of self-sabotaging behaviours. You got the promotion. The title changed. The scope expanded. The calendar got heavier. And then… quietly… something else showed up. That small, persistent thought:“What if they overestimated me?” If you’ve felt that, it doesn’t mean you’re […]
Table of Contents A leadership development plan for 2026 begins with intentional reflection – not more pressure. Most leaders I work with are incredibly capable. They deliver results.They carry responsibility.They hold teams, targets, and expectations – often across regions and time zones. And yet, when I ask them a simple question:“When was the last time […]
Great leaders inspire by seeing the future before others do Table of Contents Introduction to Leadership What makes a good leader truly unforgettable? Is it their title, their resume, or their years in a leadership position? No—true leadership is measured by impact. This article focuses on exceptional leadership qualities—such as integrity, empathy, accountability, transparency, and […]
Table of Contents Key Takeaways Effective leadership begins with your integrity, empathy, and ability to make decisions that matter. Self-awareness and continuous learning help you grow into your unique leadership style. Building strong relationships, mastering communication, and tapping into your emotional intelligence will help you lead with confidence. You can inspire trust, empower your team, […]
Coaching-centered leadership empowers teams with clarity, empathy, and connection—driving real transformation in today’s workplaces. Table of Contents In today’s fast-paced world, where change is the only constant, your ability to elevate others through coaching distinguishes you as an exceptional leader. Coaching isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a transformative approach that empowers you and those around […]
Table of Contents Looking to improve your leadership skills in Singapore? An executive coach can help leaders like you enhance your performance and achieve your goals. This page highlights top executive coaching services available in Singapore and what you can expect from the Rainmaker Executive Coaching. Key Takeaways Effective leadership transformation is critical for organizations […]
Table of Contents When a New Role, New Boss, or Setback Makes You Doubt Yourself If you have started doubting yourself after a new role, new boss, or career setback, you are not alone. You may have stepped into a new position. Your job scope may have expanded. A new leader may have come in. […]
Table of Contents The inner critic fuels negative self talk, one of the biggest drivers of self-sabotaging behaviours. You got the promotion. The title changed. The scope expanded. The calendar got heavier. And then… quietly… something else showed up. That small, persistent thought:“What if they overestimated me?” If you’ve felt that, it doesn’t mean you’re […]
Table of Contents A leadership development plan for 2026 begins with intentional reflection – not more pressure. Most leaders I work with are incredibly capable. They deliver results.They carry responsibility.They hold teams, targets, and expectations – often across regions and time zones. And yet, when I ask them a simple question:“When was the last time […]
Table of Contents When your career reaches a certain level of success, the next breakthrough isn’t about working harder — it’s about aligning deeper. That’s why I’m incredibly honoured to be featured by Mirchelley Muses among the Best Career Coaches in Singapore for 2025. This recognition isn’t just a milestone — it’s a reflection of […]
Self-sabotage often shows up just when success is within reach—keeping you stuck in old patterns. Table of Contents What Is Self Sabotaging and Why It Happens Have you ever found yourself standing at the edge of something great—only to back away, pick a fight, procrastinate, or suddenly “mess it all up”? You’re not alone. This […]
Freedom begins when you release the chains of unrealistic expectations. Table of Contents Behind the drive for flawlessness lies a deeper truth—many perfectionists don’t feel “good enough,” no matter how much they achieve. In this article, you’ll uncover the key traits of a perfectionist mindset, understand how it silently impacts your mental health, and discover […]
Mental toughness means staying grounded, even when life feels chaotic. Table of Contents Why Mental Toughness Matters Life throws curveballs – unexpected job changes, health scares, lost opportunities, and difficult relationships. What separates those who crumble from those who rise? Mental toughness. Mental toughness is important because it equips you to handle adverse circumstances, such […]
Embracing your authentic self is the first step to cultivating true self love. Table of Contents The Power of Self Love in a Demanding World In a world that constantly demands more—more success, more perfection, more productivity—it’s easy to lose sight of what matters most: how you feel about yourself. Here’s a life-changing truth: Self […]
Great leaders inspire by seeing the future before others do Table of Contents Introduction to Leadership What makes a good leader truly unforgettable? Is it their title, their resume, or their years in a leadership position? No—true leadership is measured by impact. This article focuses on exceptional leadership qualities—such as integrity, empathy, accountability, transparency, and […]
The Best Practices for Mindful Self-Compassion: A Guide to Well-Being Mindful self-compassion helps leaders reconnect with calm and lead with clarity. Table of Contents Let me ask you something straight up: Are you tired of being your own worst critic? Do you crush your goals at work — yet feel like a fraud inside? If […]
Table of Contents Key Takeaways Effective leadership begins with your integrity, empathy, and ability to make decisions that matter. Self-awareness and continuous learning help you grow into your unique leadership style. Building strong relationships, mastering communication, and tapping into your emotional intelligence will help you lead with confidence. You can inspire trust, empower your team, […]
Coaching-centered leadership empowers teams with clarity, empathy, and connection—driving real transformation in today’s workplaces. Table of Contents In today’s fast-paced world, where change is the only constant, your ability to elevate others through coaching distinguishes you as an exceptional leader. Coaching isn’t just a buzzword; it’s a transformative approach that empowers you and those around […]
At Rainmakers Coaching International, we’re thrilled and deeply grateful to be recognized by BestLah.sg as one of the Best Life Coaches in Singapore! We are also thankful to Impossible Marketing for their awesome SEO efforts in making it all possible. Their expertise in SEO has been a key part of helping companies increase their online […]
Table of Contents Looking to improve your leadership skills in Singapore? An executive coach can help leaders like you enhance your performance and achieve your goals. This page highlights top executive coaching services available in Singapore and what you can expect from the Rainmaker Executive Coaching. Key Takeaways Effective leadership transformation is critical for organizations […]
You are reading this because you have set some goals early this year and you are wondering whether or not you are on track to achieve your goals this year, right? Here are the 10 Signs You’ll Achieve Your Goals This Year! 1. You’ve created a PLAN, and you followed it. Having goals is one […]
Disagreements? Conflicts? Misunderstandings at work or home? It’s all got to do with this one thing – the meaning. So if you’d like to learn how to minimise disagreements, conflicts or misunderstandings in your personal or professional life, read on. It sounds like this: “My boss passed the new project to my juniors.” = He doesn’t […]
Do you ever feel like you’re stuck in a rut, spinning your wheels and not making any progress? Or maybe you’re feeling overwhelmed by the number of decisions that need to be made and you don’t know which is right for you. If so, you might benefit from creating a clear life vision. Many of […]
Thinking of hiring a career coach but not sure what it’s all about? Read on… Do you have big aspirations and feel like there’s just something missing? Feeling stuck at work? Perhaps hiring a Career Coach can help you find that missing piece or break free. But what must you know before hiring a career […]
Have you ever been in a situation where you have to do something, but you keep procrastinating because you really dislike doing it? We all have tasks that we dread doing. Whether it is creating a strategic plan, sending CVs to apply for a job, taking an exam, or cleaning the house, there are things […]
As we bid farewell to the tumultuous year that was 2022, its time to look ahead and set our sights on the future.What will 2023 bring? What do you want to focus on this year? For me, my theme for 2023 is FOCUS. This word resonates deeply with me and I believe it will guide […]
The year of 2022 has ended. It’s been a journey filled with both highs and lows. Yet in the midst of it all, I’ve been tested, grown and achieved new milestones in my business and personal relationships. I would use the five words that best sum up my experience in 2022: Bumpy Sweet Stretchy Relief, […]
Table of Contents Have you ever felt like a square peg trying to fit into a round hole, wondering where your true potential lies? In my younger days, I was adrift – unsure of my strengths, passions, or the steps to achieve my dreams. I had no idea what I wanted or what made me […]
I cried so much. As the kids stand up one by one, sharing their experience of the last 5 days mindset bootcamp, giving their gratitude to their parents, I couldn’t help but feel overwhelmed with emotion. I noticed tears start rolling down my eyes and I couldn’t stop it. I’ve waited for years for my […]
Are you facing a life transition? Are you going through a setback and you wonder what’s the meaning of your life? Are you wondering, if you can ever be happy again? If you are facing a life transition, read on. You see, I’ve asked the above questions questions during the low period of my life. […]
Has there been a time when you are in a group setting and you met someone who just keeps talking and dominating the conversation? How does that make you feel? Did you think the person was impressive or annoying? So often we are busy trying to impress people with how smart we are by telling […]
2021 ~ How was it for you? Took me a while to do my ‘homework’ writing my reflection for 2021.📒🖊️ It’s a 10 thought provoking questions. I had written 10 long pages 😅, but will keep it short here. One word to describe my 2021 –‘MAGICAL’. 🪄🔮 It’s a magical year that the few key […]
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Table of Contents Relationship Coach Singapore: Transform Your Inner World & Build Stronger Relationships Most people don’t search for a relationship coach in Singapore when life is smooth.They search for one when something inside feels heavy, confusing, or painfully familiar. Maybe your marriage feels distant.Maybe every conversation turns into an argument with your peers.Maybe you’re […]
A transformational life coach helps you create deep and lasting change by working not only on what you do, but who you are becoming. Unlike traditional goal-setting alone, transformational life coaching helps you understand your beliefs, emotions, identity, patterns, and inner blocks so you can move from where you are now to where you want […]
How to Choose the Best Life Coach in Singapore: 2 Questions to Ask Before You Decide Are you searching for the best life coach in Singapore? Most people begin the same way. They type “best life coach Singapore” into Google, scroll through a few websites, compare testimonials, and hope they will somehow know who is […]
So you are looking for a Life Transition Coach but you are not sure what you should be looking for? The answers to these six frequently asked questions would guide you to find the right fit for you. First of all, let’s get clear with the definition. 1. WHAT IS A LIFE TRANSITION COACH? A Life Transition […]
How can you be truly happy? Mom always told me, “don’t smile so big, your teeth look so big, so unsightly” 😅😅😅 This photo caught my attention, not because I get compliments for it. It’s also not my best shot 😅 But there is something about this smile that I feel so special. It’s the […]
Relationship ‘failure’, a matter that is close to heart for many of us I have an interesting though not shocking reflection yesterday when I learned about the four traps that contribute to a failed marriage or any relationship at work. Dr. John Gottman calls it the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse. Here are the Four […]
Make New Year Resolutions Work For You You don’t believe you can achieve your goal, that is one of the key reasons why your new year resolution doesn’t work. If you have been setting the same new year resolution for the last few years and have not been achieving it, you may have given up […]
So December is here, again. As the year is drawing to an end, you could be thinking another year is passing soon and you have many goals not accomplished. And the more you look at your checklist, the more you feel overwhelmed by the self-inflicting blame and you hear yourself saying..“you procrastinate too much”“why can’t […]
I’ve heard about The Go-Giver book from 2 people whom I encountered. One of them was a young public speaker, coach and entrepreneur Jonecca, who was able to build her brand and a thriving training and coaching business in a short one year. I was curious of her success and she attributed her success to […]
I’d like to pick a ‘taboo’ topic today. Divorced Vs Self Worth. Setback Vs Growth. Question: 1. When you encounter a setback in life, how does that affect your self worth? 2. Do you allow the setback to DEPRECIATE your self worth? If the answer is Yes, 3. What can you do to turn the […]
I don’t like change! Do you like change? Change aren’t comfortable at at all. Before change happens, you see so much uncertainty in front of you. And for most people, their mind is clouded with fears of what if I fail? What if I can’t make it? It freaks them out 🙄🙈😱 That was what […]
The truth is, you can be a better version of yourself, when you decide 🎯 I don’t believe in having to choose between inner beauty and outer beauty. Why can’t you have both? 🤔 Many years back, I gave up on myself, I didn’t care how I look, I told myself I’m old, unattractive, it doesn’t matter, […]
3rd Feb 2018, I declared that I want to share my story to the world, so that no one will be kept small and invisible, so that no child will be broken, so that no one will have to pay the heavy price I paid, for not knowing what they didn’t know, just like I […]
Table of Contents Why High-Achievers Experience Burnout and Emotional Exhaustion Have you ever woken up already tired, even after sleeping and wondered why your mind feels foggy, your body feels heavy, and your heart feels disconnected? It’s as though you are running on a flat battery, yet life keeps demanding more from you. For many […]
Intention This story, is not about finger pointing of who’s at fault, it’s not about blaming or criticising my past. It’s just me being in my vulnerability, in my loving state, taking 100% responsibility that led me to my outcome. It’s more about learning from my painful experience, and how you can change your […]
People often ask me what makes a good coach? How do you choose a personal coach that is the right fit for you? We all need someone: ✅ To help us get unstuck. ✅ To be our mirror so we can see our blind spot. ✅ To help us discover the resources and strength within us. ✅ To speak […]
5 years ago I was sitting in the room just like the 140 #PatternOfExcellence participants this year. It was the beginning of my coaching journey, a passion that I finally realised now, the one thing that has always been inside me that makes me feel alive and purposeful. I owe my growth to my teachers and […]
Today’s theme: To Aries: Choose One word that describes your mom, create the painting and give it to your mom. To Mom: Choose One word that describes Aries, create the painting and give it to your son. I’m surprised and I’m grateful that my little boy gave me the word ‘Positive’ haha…of all the words […]
Table of Contents Vulnerability: The Courage to Be Real I once watched a movie called The Good Doctor. It’s about a young doctor named Dr. Murphy, who is autistic. He has an innate gift that sets him apart—he sees the whole world differently, with a mind that can solve complex medical puzzles. But because of […]
Because I love, I got hurt. Because I got hurt, I now know how to love. It’s interesting how life unfold. Steve Jobs said, you can always connect the dot from the past. And he was right. Whatever that has happened, whatever that I’ve experienced, seems to have prepared me for today. When I take […]
“Emotion does not happen to you. Emotion is an act of doing.” I had so much fun asking my little boy Aries to show me the ‘strategies’ he use to feel excited, happy, sad by pretending. And he did so well showing me how he does it, how he move his body, how he sit, […]
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Warriors of light! Awesome bunch! Its been a long journey. I started with having just 1 positive influence in my life. Over the years, I have consciously expanded that inner circle of positive, uplifting, humble, courageous, confident and charismatic leaders and coaches in my space. I still remember one of my client told me that […]
Don’t you walk alone. The world is full of loving souls. If you know what you want, go get it, physically work on it. Set the intention, mentally, and the universe will send the right people and the right opportunities into your path. If believing in the invisible force can help you reach your easier, […]
1. Highlights of 2017 The highlights of 2017, is to finally let go of an 11 years of relationship and commitment that doesn’t serve me. No matter how much I want to make it work, to give my son a happy family, I still lose in this battle. Often quilts came after me, telling me […]
POE coaching family! Feels awesome to be back. The commitment, the leadership, positive and selfless culture here is just so magnetic. Each and every time we were back to contribute, we found ourselves being the recipient of growth. It never fail to bring us up to the next level in our pursuit to unleash the […]
